1St BAD SEIZURE SINCE I BECAME DORIAN

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  🏳️‍🌈Early very early this morning I had my first bad seizure since I became Dorian  Spencer or using the pronouns They/ThemYes I have been having my normal seizures my small ones, but this morning was the first bad one since Dorian. I have to admit I was kind of surprised as I didn't know what it was going to feel like being a "new person". I have to admit I have felt extremely relieved and relaxed. 

 Telling all my friends about Dorian Spencer I found has been very helpful and liberating for me. I am so happy that so many of my friend's are in my corner with my new identity. Some days my seizures seem to be really calm and others of course I will have a couple or few of my smaller ones. But that is it so my days I'm still able to get quite a bit done. 

 Today is going to be my first different day since Dorian was born. Today will be my first totally rest day with nothing but listening to books some t.v. It was a horrible way to wake up but had been along time so am grateful. It is grate that my seizures have for most part stayed the same especially with people I know that criticized my coming out non binary and my journey being one that was pointless. 

 Then I've had a couple people I am no longer speaking with becsuse they stressed and had stressed for long time because I came out. Telling me what God was going to do me what a horrible person I was. Also how my family must feel or if they don't should feel ashamed as my family is Christian. This caused stress and seizures so with everyone that supports me and new identity and even my full journey. 🏳️‍🌈

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